April 2012
VIRGINITY IS A SOCIAL CONSTRUCT
Virginity:
is sexist
is heteronormative
commodifies sex
commodifies young cis-het white women
contributes to rape culture
contributes to slut-shaming
erases queer folk
erases transfolk
frames a woman’s worth as inversely proportional to the number of dicks that have been inside her
Anonymous asked: Why do you wear glasses when you dont even need to ?
March 2012
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This sickness needs to go away because feeling like I have a hangover 24/7 is not the bidniz. Hm. Maybe if I had good rest every night and didn’t have to wake up because of some stupid ruckus every fucking morning for the last week I’d be ay okay. So…sooo..tired. What are my plans for today…
Get breakfast, read Bluest Eye
Roll call @2-5
Ranill’s card making...
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gotta be kidding me. lol.
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Anonymous asked: how do you like USF and what is your major?
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random.
A Few Things I want to say to some people:
It’s been an endless “wtf” every day for the past week. Like, really? But then I have moments when I really appreciate you. It’s a battle though.
I wish we could all push harder, finish faster, do better together.
I hope once summer comes, things will be different. We can at least try to get close again.
I wish I wasn’t...
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I love to read.
I love to read people’s thoughts, ideas and experiences. It’s like looking at a picture but in text form. I love reading blogs from people I’m close to and hearing their voices as I read their writing. :)
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Sick. Way. Too. Sick. Trying to at least start my essay that was due friday lols
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Out of sight, out of mind.
[&you’re gone, see you the next leap year!]
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Today was a good day :)
Went to bed happy last night because I got to spend my birthday with some pledge bruddas and Elise’s homies
Woke up, had breakfast with said Elise and homies
Alvin surprised me and picked me up from school (thank god because it was raining like da cray shitss)
When we got back, we got haircuts together!
Everyone came to mi casa and we went to eat at Red Robin
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Holy shit. I never knew you have achieved so much greatness. And to think that you graduated from where I graduated, you started where I started, you had every one of the same opportunities I had. Ivy league woman, Secretary-General in your senior year of high school and college. Mother of god, I can’t even fathom how much inspiration you give to me right now. I’m awestruck.
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Anonymous asked: how content are you with your life?
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One question summary: “What in the world happened here?”
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Sometimes it’s hard to sit back and think about how much you would really do for another person only to realize that the same person wouldn’t even think of doing the same for you. For God’s sake, if I really wanted something, I would go out of my way to do it. Out of my way. Meaning, not a matter of convenience.
This week has just been a really hard week and I thought...
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One midterm. COME ON. >:[ Stupid chinese lol
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I’m stressing out right now. So. So. Much. Too stupid. Really.
Random words that only I can understand. Private seems like a good plan. Loving things so far. Better. Greater.
Closer. Further. Forgotten. Emerged. New. Great. Sad. Happy. Missing.
Trophy fuck. Super duper trophy fuck. Ego. Done with.
Chocolate fire cupcakes.
Getting closer to the third power. Too hot to handlee.
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MADE IT TO THE SECOND PART OF MY INTERVIEW. YESSSS. :D
Anonymous asked: I take it you're not coming home for your birthday :(
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"I don't think I can do normal."
iheartwhiteboys:
The lesson I’m learning from Ted & Robin in HIMYM:
You can fight it, you can try to move past it or act like it’s no big deal,
But things will never be back to normal after a breakup. There will always be feelings that dug too deep, on one side or both, and it’ll come back no matter how long it’s under denial. And the sad thing is? It’s almost always unrequited.
No matter...
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So like, my chinese teacher is getting on my balls right now. I don’t have any but I’m just terribly frustrated with her. That’s the ONLY class I’m stressing out about. You’ve got to be kidding. On top of that, pledging is getting intense. ASLDFJASDFKJ. Okay. /rant. Not cool, need to look good this weekend because I’ll be turning 19 ! >:[
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This time it’s no one’s business but our own.
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Relationships last longer when nobody knows your...
sunnnnshine:
I’ve seen a lot of relationships fail because the couple refused to communicate with each other and they talked to everybody else besides each other.
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Things to do:
Before going back to school tomorrow morning:
Finish as much as I can of my famrry line project
Clean my room
Finish McTeague
Do laundry
Pack
Bluest Eye
Study for APO’s midterm tomorrow
Starting…NOW.
How to keep a relationship.
staypozitive:
communicate: talk about things, the good and bad.
build trust.
be honest.
be faithful.
be there for one another.
make time for one another.
leave the past to the past, which include ex’s.
know that having arguments is normal.
know that you won’t always be happy.
don’t expect change.
appreciate the flaws.
appreciate each other.
become best friends.
lastly, love each...
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I hope this time it’s the right thing to do.
Round two’s the charm.
eqohz:
x3haha:
It rained pretty hard yesterday. While most people stayed cozy in their homes, we went out to complete another thing on our leap list <3
March 16, 2012 - Run, dance, and kiss in the rain (:
I love both of you so much. :’)
super cute. <3 love you guys!
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Hi period,
YOU FUCKING SUCK. -Me